flexible

jadilah flexible. itu akan membuat kelokan-kelokan dalam hidup Anda lebih mudah dilalui.
-if life is a game, these are the rules-

in fact, it really happens. adaptable mungkin padanannya (in my point of view yg tidak menguasai bahasa loh ya).
gimana kita berusaha menempatkan posisi kita pada berbagai situasi dan lingkungan.
sehingga kita pada akhirnya bisa masuk ke dalam situasi itu, dan yang terpenting diterima menjadi bagian di dalamnya.

jangan lupakan

tolong. maaf. terima kasih

someday

STOP COMPARING - catatan september 2011

kadang, cara termudah utk merasa bahagia
adalah dengan
behenti membanding-bandingkan dirimu
dengan orang lain
kemudian
bersyukur atas apa yang kamu miliki
bahkan apa yang ada di langit dan di bumi ini
hanya titipanNya

the way to deliver something

i’ve never realized until one of my communication and counseling lecturer said that : the way to deliver something is really matter. Yes, that’s right.
most of communication problem that happened around me is because the way to deliver the messages isn’t right. let’s say that it’s wrong or inappropriate. then, the problem grows bigger and bigger.
sometimes, some people (including me) didn’t realize that she/he made a mistake when says something. sometimes, it’s also depends on the receiver. but, the sender is still the key person to deliver the messages. (in my opinion).
So, please be careful when u have to deliver something to the others.
For the prevention, maybe we can recognize what is the goal of the communication and know about who will we talk to, because the background of the receiver also influence the communication itself.
but, the best prevention is be careful when we talk. ;)